Inc. Magazine Offers Guidance on Managing 'Needy' Employees
Inc.com columnist Alison Green provides advice for managers dealing with employees who exhibit excessive need for attention, emphasizing strategic management changes over a purely attitudinal shift.

Inc.com columnist Alison Green has offered guidance for managers struggling with employees described as 'needy,' suggesting that while the employee may be performing well, their constant demands can lead to managerial burnout. The advice focuses on implementing strategic management adjustments rather than solely relying on a change in the manager's attitude.
In an article addressing a reader's query, Green discusses how to handle employees who require significant reassurance or monopolize time. The reader described an employee named Miranda who repeatedly seeks confirmation of instructions via email and elaborates excessively during team meetings, causing frustration.
Green asserts that the employee's behavior is genuinely disruptive and not simply a matter of the manager's perception. She advises implementing clear structural changes to communication and meeting protocols. For instance, setting explicit expectations for confirmation responses or limiting contributions in team updates can help.
The article suggests that managers should establish defined boundaries and communication frameworks. This includes addressing repetitive questioning by asking the employee what information would make initial instructions clearer and managing meeting time by setting clear expectations for the length and content of updates. Green concludes that proactive management strategies are key to addressing such dynamics effectively.