R+V Study: Four in Five Families Experience Mental Strain
A study by German insurer R+V Versicherung reveals that 80 percent of families in Germany feel significant mental strain in their daily lives. A new documentary highlights these experiences.

Berlin – A new study by German insurer R+V Versicherung indicates that 80 percent of families in Germany experience considerable mental strain in their daily lives. The research highlights how the constant juggling act between family, work, and everyday life can lead to burnout and illness.
According to the study, the majority of parents (78 percent) feel they constantly have to think about everything, a burden that disproportionately affects women (89 percent). Over 60 percent of parents report chronic stress, insufficient personal time, and exhaustion. The strain is particularly acute for parents with young children and those with larger families.
R+V states that public discourse has not adequately addressed the mental burden faced by families, especially mothers and fathers. To raise awareness, the insurance company has produced a nine-minute documentary featuring ten diverse German families openly discussing their challenges and experiences. The film aims to shed light on the phenomenon of "mental load."
The documentary, available on YouTube and the company's website, portrays families' everyday worries, personal struggles, and coping mechanisms. Many parents describe feeling as though they are carrying a heavy backpack, their minds filled with numerous thoughts. Children also perceive their parents' strain, which can manifest as increased crying or irritability in mothers.
Parents participating in the study attempt to alleviate their burden through pleasant activities like walks or listening to music, as well as through conversations with loved ones. Many also express a desire for more governmental support, such as programs from schools and the healthcare system, and more needs-oriented external support services.